Friday, May 1, 2015

Techniques Stress management training

Stress management training, through its highly interactive learning programs, renders many techniques that improve the organizational skills of a person. Stress management training aims at helping those people who are suffering from stress and anxiety. The stress management training programs also benefit individuals suffering from alcohol and drug addictions, depression, and other forms of physical illnesses. Stress management training program mainly concentrates on controlling information overload, mastering the choice challenge, reducing stress through better organization, and cutback time with enhanced listening. The contents included in stress management training program are psychophysiology of stress, recognizing the physical, mental and emotional signs of stress, performance enhancement, multiple stress management sessions and education technology, impact of stress on a team, preventive measures to manage conflict and anger at work, and teaching about good and bad stress including their symptoms.

Various courses are offered in stress management training. Online stress management course covers areas in time management, leadership skills, communication skills, assertiveness, and relaxation techniques. Stress management training is now offered even as distant learning programs. Nowadays, diploma courses in stress management training and in organizational stress management are also available.

Stress management techniques are meant for those suffering from physical and psychological stress. With competition brewing in every field, people looking out for successful stress management techniques are increasing day by day.

There are three major approaches to manage stress. There are various stress management techniques available to control and reduce stress. Self-understanding, self-management, conflict resolution, self-talk, positive attitude, exercise, meditation, autogenic training, breathing, diet, rest and stress balls are some of the common techniques. Heavy breathing reduces stress and brings the body to a relaxed position. Music therapy is another method of stress relief designed for both short term and long term conditions. Other stress-relieving techniques include meditation, yoga, and self-hypnosis.

This technique is mainly used against stress-induced psychosomatic disorders. Proper management of time can reduce stress largely.

Thursday, April 23, 2015

stress management specialists

The sad thing about stress is often not so much the stress itself, though this is very unpleasant for the person who is stressed, but rather the fear of other people's reactions if the person wishes to confide in a friend, family or work colleague - even stress management specialists. Another sad fact about stress management, and being a stress and anger management professional myself I know this all too well, is the widespread opinion that stress management does not matter; that it is a 'fluffy' concept that is not needed, or is only for weak minded people. We all know the effects that stress can bring about and if you are reading this in search of a cure, or at least some relief, from personal stress or that of a loved one, the effects of stress need no further explanation. 

STRESS MANAGEMENT CAN STOP THE STRESS GETTING WORSE - An old saying comes to mind here that 'a problem shared is a problem halved'. By addressing the stress head-on can immediately stop this stress getting any worse - before stress reduction can begin. 

STRESS MANAGEMENT CAN GET TO THE ROOT CAUSE OF THE STRESS - This is often not as easy as it sounds. Stress from the journey to work every morning for example may not actually be the root cause of our stress. Speaking to a stress management professional can actually allow us to get to the root cause of stress - helped by speaking to somebody with wide experience of these matters, but also somebody outside friends or family - something I will discuss shortly.

STRESS MANAGEMENT CAN PROVIDE COPING TECHNIQUES FOR THE FUTURE - Getting to the bottom of the stress is one part of stress management but the other and equally important part of the process is gaining techniques for managing future stress. It is often the case that speaking to a stress management professional, while being a great help and initially relieving the present stress; is of little use if the person is going to get stressed again in the near future.

ENABLES US TO TALK TO AN EXPERIENCED PROFESSIONAL WHO IS COMPLETELY NEUTRAL - It can be difficult discussing anything with family and close friends, especially stress.

Saturday, April 18, 2015

Stress Management Keys

At what age do students have the greatest stress? Older parents say middle school students have the most stress, having just entered adolescence. Stress management among students in universities is a hit-or-miss matter. Some universities schedule optional stress management classes, but students often lack the time to attend.

Stress Management Keys
Specific keys will open the door to better stress management among students in universities. Without them, stress management is limited for the students. 

1. Clear definitions: Effective stress management among students requires clear definitions of words such as "stressor," "stress," "eustress," and "distress." Students who do not understand clearly what stress is cannot be expected to succeed at stress management. They may be trying to manage stressors, thinking they are managing stress. The outcome may very well be increased stress rather than stress management.

Stress management among students in universities can begin only after they understand that the extra demands made upon them are stressors, not stress. They then must understand that their response to those demands constitutes stress.

 2. Action Plan: With a firm understanding of the definitions, students are ready to formulate a stress management action plan. Armed with the knowledge that stress is the response to stressors, students can learn to control that response. 

3. Stressor Identification: An important part of the stress management ambush is to learn to identify the enemy. Every university student has stressors. The key to stress management is to identify those demands as stressors.

4. Turning Distress into Eustress: Another key that helps unlock the doors to stress management is that of turning distress into eustress. Students often act as victims of their stressors. Stress management requires that they learn to turn a potentially negative response to stressors into a positive response.

Stress management among students in universities can be stripped of many programs, drugs, and therapies if these keys are used well.

Wednesday, April 8, 2015

FACTORS OF SELF ESTEEM

There is a great misconception about a Christian having self esteem. Self esteem
 
It is a feeling of confidence, being happy with your own character and abilities. It is also known as self- worth. Self esteem is an indwelling virtue. Unlike self esteem, confidence is dynamic. It is the manifestation of the already accumulated in- dwelling self esteem in you. It is like the kinetic energy of the already potential energy (self esteem).

FACTORS OF SELF ESTEEM
• Fluency in important languages
• Self righteousness
• Knowledge and understanding/ good skills
• Wealth
• Self righteousness/ morality and many more others
• If I need not possess all, which ones in particular are most needed to have self esteem?
 
ABSOLUTE SOURCE OF SELF ESTEEM
Can we get an absolute source of self esteem? If beauty is a factor of self esteem, as it fades away, your self esteem fades as well.

If our focus turns from the Living God to luxury we worship an Idol. Is beauty really an absolute source of self esteem? Remember that, self esteem comes from within, the true virtue and personality of yourself. Ruth 4:21-22 showed the descendants of Ruth. Everything is about self and irrespective of our background; self esteem can be earned in full.

If money or wealth is the source of self- esteem, then a lasting one is beyond achievement. What was God's response? If you think wealth is the absolute source of self esteem, I urge you to reconsider.  

Physical differences
In summary, the heart is the focal point of self esteem. God persisted but Moses insisted as well. If Moses had listened to God and subdued his inferiority, these events would not have happened. You can as well trust God fully for something special.  

Self Righteousness
People around you may respect you, Love you, and regard you with high esteem, but is it an absolute source of self esteem? (Matthew7:6-7; Matthew 23:1-28). The already explained factors may for a time make you highly esteemed, but are never true sources of self- esteem. Ultimately, the true and only source of self- esteem is God, through our Lord and savior Jesus Christ and our Hearts been the medium or determinant factor or focal point in earning absolute self esteem.

On the final note, God is the ultimate source of absolute self- esteem.

Monday, April 6, 2015

Tacit self-esteem

Everyone has a different theory about the root cause of self-esteem, the results of self-esteem, and what steps or skills need to be learned in order to raise self-esteem.

Self-esteem cannot be improved through meditation, oral hygiene, or colon cleansing. Self-esteem is the same measurement only applied to yourself rather than someone else. Self-esteem is a gauge of how positively you view yourself. Just like the esteem you afford a colleague, self-esteem can wax and wane depending on circumstances.

Psychologists identify two categories of self-esteem: Tacit self-esteem is a measure of how we generally feel about ourselves, on average. Stage self-esteem can be lower or higher than our tacit self-esteem. When people confess that they suffer from low self-esteem, it is stage self-esteem that they are usually referring to.

There are a lot of articles that tie self-esteem to self-confidence, but they are not the same. Self-esteem and self-confidence are not the same.

So the question becomes, where does self-esteem come from? You will read articles that claim that low self-esteem causes students to get bad grades or that low self-esteem causes someone to experiment with drugs, abuse alcohol, or causes teenage pregnancy. Some studies have shown that high self-esteem can be more detrimental in some cases than low self-esteem. The fact is that low self-esteem doesn't cause the behaviors; the behaviors cause low self-esteem. Which brings us the answer to our question: How do you raise self-esteem? Well, if negative behaviors lower self-esteem, it makes sense that positive behaviors can raise self-esteem. Since self-esteem is a gauge or measurement for how positively we feel about ourselves, doing something that meets or exceeds our expectations of ourselves will increase our self-esteem. We ridicule ourselves and badger ourselves with negative self-talk which leads to lower self-esteem. We as coaches should stop focusing on improving self-esteem and focus on the root causes of low self-esteem. If a client expresses low stage self-esteem, focus on the event that caused the negative feelings.